Do you think I have autism or aspergers?

For now, focus on finding a health practitioner that is successful in helping those with your symptoms. www.generationrescue.org is a website where people give out free information about health practitioners they have seen. They will know who can help you. A lot of information has recently been learned about all those diagnoses you have mentioned. Treatments that are more towards ridding symptoms due to treating the causes. My children are recovered from Asperger's, anxiety, ADHD, etc. Your local doctor will probably not know anything about what I am talking about. This is why you must ask those who have found the successful doctors, herbalists, homeopaths, naturopaths, etc. that have learned that treating the immune system is key to ridding symptoms.